Step 3c - Gifts
A gift is something that you can hold in your hand and say, “He or she thought of me, he or she had not forgotten me. You have to think of someone in order to give them a gift. The gift in itself is a sign of this, regardless of whether it costs money. It is an expression of love.
Give yourself
When your partner needs you in a difficult situation, it is giving yourself. This is also an expression of love.
Action:
- Take some quiet time to let gifts as a love language sink in on you.
- Write down how you experience getting gifts and how you think your partner experiences it.