Step 3b - Quality time
Being together means doing active or passive things with full attention to each other.
Being together
When you play tennis together, the partners are not only engaged in the sport, but it is mainly about being together. The activity is the means that creates the feeling of being together.
Talking together
A positive conversation with full attention where the partners share their experiences, thoughts, feelings and wishes in a friendly manner and without being interrupted, that is talking together.
Cell phones can be distracting elements!
Action:
- Take some time to let quality timer as a love language sink in on you
- Write down how you experience quality time using examples and how you think your partner experiences it.